Elisabeth Fayt, Founder and Co-Owner of rnr Wellness.
In this fun love quiz, Relationship Expert, Elisabeth Fayt shares 10 practical tips for creating more love in your relationship. Tap into the secret of finding your soul mate in the person you’re with, by following a few simple rules that are easy to practice–starting right now!
Answer these simple questions and see how you scored below. Be sure to answer honestly!
1. Do you remember your very first thought this morning (before you opened your eyes?)
Yes/No
Bonus Question: If you answered Yes, was it positive?
Yes/No
2. If you had the chance, what would you change about your partner?
a) Nothing b) Very Little c) Got a few hours?
3. You’ve just had a fight with your partner and you call a good friend for coffee. In your conversation:
a) You cry the blues b) You ask for advice c) You mention nothing about your fight
4. Over dinner with a good friend, she begins to tell you how sweet and romantic her partner is. You:
a) have a hard time hearing it, because your man is so far from that
b) are sincerely happy for her, but at the same time a little jealous
c) are sincerely happy for her, and it gives you an idea of something romantic you will do for your partner!
5. How often do your feelings get hurt in your relationship?
a) Often b) Seldom c) Never
Scoring your love quiz answers:
1. If you answered Yes to question 1 give yourself 10 points. Add 5 points if you answered Yes to the bonus question.
The first step to creating an amazing love life is to be aware of your thoughts. Everything in life is choice. People spend more time choosing what they are going to wear in the morning than they do choosing how they will connect with people. Your first thought of the day lines up energy of the day. You can consciously pre-pave your day. Start your day with some powerful pre-paves that will line up a day of miracles for you in love. Pre-pave “I deeply connect with my partner today.”
2. If you chose a) in this love quiz, give yourself 10 points. If you chose b) give yourself 5 points.
We shouldn’t wish to change anything about anyone else, rather change ourselves, then the whole world changes naturally around us. Whatever you focus on, shows up more in your relationship. If you inwardly concentrate on your partner’s faults or idiosyncrasies, they will become more dominant to you. Whatever you look for, you will find. Begin to look for the best every day.
3. If you answered c) score yourself 10 points.
Neither of the other two answers warrant any points. Whatever you talk about, expands in your life. You are not helping your relationship by telling a friend all about your woes in love. Asking for advice only closes off your own inner voice. Ask your questions within and keep your answers to yourself and your partner. Your relationship is private and its privacy should be respected.
4. If you chose c) score yourself 10 points and 5 points for b)
First of all, don’t compare your life to that of another. You don’t know what goes on behind closed doors. If most of us were truly aware of the ups and downs of another person’s life, we would be more than happy to stick with our own.
Often what we see in the lives of others is there to give us clarity on what we want in our own life. So when you see a friend enjoying what you want, rejoice and say Yes! That is what I want too! Then put your energy toward creating it.
5. If you answered c) give yourself 10 points. If you answered b) give yourself 5 points.
No one can offend us or hurt us without our permission. Ten percent of life is what happens to us, 90% is how we respond. Attitude is not the most important thing, it’s the only thing….because it creates our next experience.
